Client Guides

We’ve provided some helpful guides to give an overview of some family law related topics.


  • Slide 1 - Selecting the Right Divorce Lawyer

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  • Slide 2 - Research Potential Lawyers

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  • Slide 3 - Evaluate Credentials and Reputation

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  • Slide 4 - Schedule Initial Consultations

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  • Slide 5 - Selecting the Right Attorney

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  • Slide 6 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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Selecting the Right Divorce Lawyer

It is a critical step in ensuring your legal needs and personal interests are properly addressed during the divorce process. Here are some professional tips to help guide your decision.

1. Research Potential Lawyers: Do your research on the attorney before you schedule a consultation. Be sure to check the attorney’s experience with cases similar to yours, such as high-net-worth divorces or contested custody disputes.

2. Evaluate Credentials and Reputation: Verify the attorney’s areas of practice and affiliations with family law organizations. Read client reviews and testimonials online.

3. Schedule Initial Consultations: Prepare questions prior to the consultation about any case specific questions, as well as the attorney’s approach to resolving disputes, preferred means of communication, and anticipated costs. Clearly define your goals and expectations.

4. Selecting the Right Attorney: Ultimately you need to select the attorney that is the best fit for you and your case. Be wary of guarantees of specific outcomes. If you feel comfortable, respected, and confident in their abilities, it’s a good sign they’re the right fit.

Consult with a family law attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. An attorney at DeVallance Law can help assess your case, explain your rights, and help you build a strong argument in support of your request for spousal support. Call or text: (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - What are Family Law Temporary Orders

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  • Slide 2 - Provide Immediate Relief

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  • Slide 3 - Establish Stability for Children

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  • Slide 4 - Ensure Financial Security

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  • Slide 5 - Prevent Conflict or Misconduct

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  • Slide 6 - Preserve the Status Quo

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  • Slide 7 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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What Are Family Law Temporary Orders, and Why Are They Needed?

Temporary orders are intended to address immediate concerns and provide stability until the court makes final decisions in the case. Here are a few important reasons for temporary orders.

1. Provide Immediate Relief: They address urgent issues such as financial support, housing, or child custody while the case is ongoing.

2. Establish Stability for Children: Temporary custody and visitation arrangements ensure that children have a stable routine and contact with both parents during what can be a disruptive time.

3. Ensure Financial Security: Temporary spousal or child support orders help ensure that financial needs are met while waiting for the final judgment.

4. Prevent Conflict or Misconduct: Orders can prevent one party from selling or hiding assets, leaving a shared home without notice, or engaging in other actions that might harm the other party or the case.

5. Preserve the Status Quo: Courts often issue orders that maintain the family’s living and financial arrangements as they were before the case began, minimizing disruption.

Consult with a family law attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. An attorney at DeVallance Law can help assess your case, explain your rights, and help you build a strong argument in support of your legal matter. Call or text: (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - Spousal Support

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  • Slide 2 - Determine Your Financial Needs

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  • Slide 3 - Analyze Your Income

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  • Slide 4 - Evaluate Your Spouse’s Finances

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  • Slide 5 - Show Need

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  • Slide 6 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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Spousal Support (aka alimony or maintenance)

If you are requesting spousal support in your divorce, here are some professional tips to help guide your decision.

1. Determine Your Financial Needs: Calculate your monthly expenses, including housing, utilities, transportation, and other living costs.

2. Analyze Your Income: Understand your current income, including employment earnings, savings, or other sources. Highlight gaps between your needs and income.

3. Evaluate Your Spouse’s Finances: Gather evidence of their income, assets, and earning potential.

4. Show Need: Clearly outline why you require alimony, emphasizing financial dependence and inability to meet expenses independently.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. An attorney at DeVallance Law can help assess your case, explain your rights, and help you build a strong argument in support of your request for spousal support. Call or text: (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - Parenting Evaluations

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  • Slide 2 - Focus on the Child

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  • Slide 3 - Honesty and Transparency

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  • Slide 4 - Cooperation

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  • Slide 5 - Conflict with Co-Parent

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  • Slide 6 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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Client Tips When Preparing for a Parenting Evaluation

Here are some professional tips to help guide you through the process.

1. Focus on the Child: The child’s well-being and development are the evaluator’s primary concern. The standard in Washington State is the best interest of the children.

2. Honesty and Transparency: Be honest but careful not to overshare irrelevant or highly emotional grievances with the other parent.

3. Cooperation: Be respectful and cooperative to the parenting evaluator throughout the evaluation process.

4. Conflict with Co-Parent: Be prepared to discuss co-parenting issues without hostility or blame – focus on solutions instead.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. An attorney at DeVallance Law can help assess your case, explain your rights, and help you prepare for a parenting evaluation. Call or text: (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - Keeping the Family Home

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  • Slide 2 - Evaluate Affordability

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  • Slide 3 - Understand Your Finances

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  • Slide 4 - Consult with a Mortgage Specialist

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  • Slide 5 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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Divorce Planning and Strategy – Keeping the Family Home

1. Evaluate Affordability: Determine if you can afford the mortgage, taxes, maintenance, and other expenses independently.

2. Understand Your Finances: Meet with a financial advisor to review income, debts, and other obligations to ensure keeping the home won’t strain your budget.

3. Consult with a Mortgage Specialist: Consult with a divorce mortgage specialist to review your options in the event you are required to remove the other spouse from the mortgage, and if possible secure an approval letter of loan pre-qualification.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. An attorney at DeVallance Law can help assess your case, explain your rights, and help you build a strong argument in support of your legal matter. Call or text: (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - Advantages to being awarded a former spouse's 401(k)

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  • Slide 2 - Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)

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  • Slide 3 - No Immediate Taxes

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  • Slide 4 - Loan Options for Immediate Needs

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  • Slide 5 - Penalty-Free Withdrawals at 55

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  • Slide 6 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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401(k) vs. Traditional IRA
Advantages to being awarded a former spouse’s 401(k) in lieu of an IRA in a divorce

In a divorce, a 401(k) can have certain advantages over a traditional Individual Retirement Account (IRA) when dividing marital assets. Here are the key advantages:

1. Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO): 401(k) accounts can be divided through a QDRO, which allows a tax-free and penalty-free transfer of funds to the non-employee spouse.

2. No Immediate Taxes: The receiving spouse can roll over the funds into their own retirement account without triggering immediate income tax or penalties. In contrast, IRAs don’t require a QDRO for division but may involve more potential tax implications if mishandled.

3. Loan Options for Immediate Needs: If funds are needed for immediate expenses, a 401(k) often allows for loans (depending on the plan’s terms). This option is typically unavailable with IRAs.

4. Early Withdrawal Penalties: Early withdrawals from a traditional IRA prior to reaching age 59½ are subject to a 10% penalty. There is an exception to the 10% penalty for early withdrawals from a 401(k) account, provided the 401(k) funds were transferred from a former spouse pursuant to a QDRO.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. An attorney at DeVallance Law can help assess your case and explain the tax consequences associated with dividing retirement accounts in divorce. Call or text: (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - Preparing for Mediation in Divorce

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  • Slide 2 - Be Prepared

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  • Slide 3 - Purpose

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  • Slide 4 - Role of the Mediator

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  • Slide 5 - Top Priorities

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  • Slide 6 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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Preparing for Mediation in Divorce

Before scheduling mediation, it is important for clients to be well-informed, emotionally prepared, and ready to negotiate effectively. Here are a few tips:

1. Be Prepared: Ensure you have all the necessary financial documents and other relevant information before scheduling mediation. Full disclosure and transparency is critical. Prepare a mediation letter with supporting exhibits that summarizes your case and settlement goals.

2. Purpose: Mediation is a collaborative process aimed at reaching an agreement on divorce terms without court intervention. In Washington State, the goal at mediation is to sign a written agreement called a Civil Rule 2A Agreement that contains the material terms of your settlement.

3. Role of the Mediator: The mediator is a neutral facilitator, not an advocate for either party. The mediator’s role is to help the parties reach a compromise. The mediator does not provide legal advice, but may provide insight as to a reasonable settlement range based upon their professional experience.

4. Top Priorities: Work with your attorney to identify your primary objectives (e.g., custody arrangements, financial security, property division). Discuss acceptable compromises and potential deal-breakers with your attorney prior to the mediation.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. If you need an advocate to help you reach an amicable settlement to your divorce or to represent you at mediation, contact DeVallance Law. Call or text: (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - Capital Gains on the Sale of a Primary Residence

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  • Slide 2 - Exclusion Amounts

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  • Slide 3 - Ownership Test

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  • Slide 4 - Use Test

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  • Slide 5 - Frequency Test

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  • Slide 6 - Exceptions

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  • Slide 7 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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Capital Gains on the Sale of a Primary Residence

The capital gains rules for the sale of a primary residence are designed to provide significant tax benefits for homeowners under certain conditions, however there are a few things clients need to be aware of when determining whether the family home should be sold or awarded to one of the spouses in the divorce settlement.

1. Exclusion Amounts: Single tax filers may exclude up to $250,000 of capital gains from the sale of a primary residence. If married filing jointly, the exclusion amount increases to $500,000 of capital gains.

2. Ownership Test: You must have owned the home for at least 2 years within the 5 years before the sale.

3. Use Test: The home must have been your primary residence (where you lived) for at least 2 years within the 5 years before the sale. These 2 years do not need to be consecutive.

4. Frequency Test: The exclusion can only be claimed once every 2 years.

5. Exceptions: The Internal Revenue Code includes several exceptions and special rules for circumstances such as military service, temporary court orders regarding use of the home, and unforeseen circumstances.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC: If your primary residence is subject to sale or being awarded to one of the spouses in a divorce, contact DeVallance Law for a consultation on potential capital gains consequences.

 

  • Slide 1 - Working with joint experts in divorce

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  • Slide 2 - Equitable rather than equal division of property

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  • Slide 3 - Use well-established experts

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  • Slide 4 - Hiring of joint experts

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  • Slide 5 - Reduced costs

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  • Slide 6 - Time efficiency

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  • Slide 7 - Neutral and unbiased opinions

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  • Slide 8 - Less adversarial process

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  • Slide 9 - Streamlined information gathering

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  • Slide 10 - Schedule a consultation with DeVallance Law

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Working with Joint Experts in Divorce

Washington State law requires an equitable – rather than a strictly equal – division of property. To achieve this, professional valuations are utilized to determine the fair market value of businesses and high-value assets, ensuring the court has an accurate financial basis for its distribution of the marital estate.

1. Use well-established experts
The strength of a business valuation is fundamentally dependent on the qualifications of the performing expert. Is your expert experienced with court testimony? Have they frequently appeared before the court in your jurisdiction?

2. Hiring of Joint Experts
In certain situations, it may be beneficial to the parties to hire a joint expert for the purpose of valuing a business or asset.

Advantages to using jointly retained experts may include:

i. Reduced Costs:
The parties share the fees for one expert instead of each paying for their own, which can lead to significant savings.

ii. Time Efficiency:
Using a single expert streamlines the process, avoids duplication of efforts, and eliminates the time-consuming process of managing conflicting reports from different experts.

iii. Neutral and Unbiased Opinions:
Joint experts have a duty to the court to be impartial, which increases confidence in their findings and helps prevent disputes over bias that can arise with party-hired experts.

iv. Less Adversarial Process:
A single, credible report provides a clear foundation for negotiation and encourages cooperation, which is particularly beneficial for resolving a case through mediation.

v. Streamlined Information Gathering:
The expert works with both parties to ensure they receive all necessary information, which can make the process more efficient and transparent.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. If your dissolution requires joint experts to accurately value marital property, contact the attorneys at DeVallance Law. We provide the experienced representation you need to secure an equitable outcome. In the Seattle/Bellevue area, call or text (425) 800-7418.

 

  • Slide 1 - A Smarter Path Forward: Family Law Mediation vs. Trial

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  • Slide 2 - Mediation offers a collaborative, structured environment

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  • Slide 3 - Significantly Lower Costs

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  • Slide 4 - Faster Resolution

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  • Slide 5 - Complete Confidentiality

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  • Slide 6 - Customized Solutions

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  • Slide 7 - Reduced Emotional Stress

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  • Slide 8 - Schedule a Consultation with DeVallance Law

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A Smarter Path Forward: Family Law Mediation vs. Trial

Resolving family legal disputes doesn’t have to mean costly courtroom battles, public records, and prolonged emotional strain. Mediation offers a collaborative, structured environment where you retain control over your family’s future.

Key Advantages of Mediation:

  • Significantly Lower Costs: Avoid mounting attorney litigation fees, expert witness costs, and formal court filings. Most mediation cases settle at a fraction of a trial’s price tag.
  • Faster Resolution: While courtroom trials often stretch over 1 to 2 years due to backlogged dockets, mediation can yield a finalized agreement in far less time.
  • Complete Confidentiality: Trial proceedings and evidence become matters of public record. Mediation takes place entirely behind closed doors, protecting your privacy.
  • Customized Solutions: A judge must apply rigid statutory rules to your final divorce orders. In mediation, you can design flexible, personalized arrangements for co-parenting and asset division.
  • Reduced Emotional Stress: Trial is adversarial by design, driving parties apart. Mediation emphasizes communication and problem-solving, preserving co-parenting relationships.

Consult with a Family Law Attorney at DeVallance Law, PLLC. With over 24 years of experience mediating and arbitrating family law cases, we help parties find a fair and efficient resolution to their family law disputes.

In the Seattle/Bellevue Area: (425) 800-7418 • devallancelaw.com

 

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